Have you ever wondered about Family Law Mediation as an option for you for your separation? Is it even an option when it seems that things are so difficult on every level? The short answer is yes. All issues, including parenting plans, child support, spousal support, asset division and more, can be worked out through mediation.
Mediation is a voluntary process where the parties work together with a neutral family law mediator or family dispute resolution professional who will help them create a long lasting, customized agreement based on each parties needs, wishes and interests, giving the family the ability to create the outcome that works best for them.
It is private, affordable, and an efficient use of family resources as it gives the family control over the outcome. Mediation can work for all families, even where there are high conflict dynamics and in cases where there is little or no communication. The mediator will adapt their process and create a safe environment whereby mediation can proceed with the necessary safe guards in place.
Mediation can be done with the parties only or with lawyers present. Parties are always encouraged to get independent legal advice during the mediation process and when signing a final agreement. It can also be set up remotely or in person.
The process starts with a separate intake meeting with each party and the signing of an Agreement to Mediate that sets out the process and terms for mediation. Parties can exchange mediation briefs or summaries of the issues to be resolved in advance of the sessions. The mediation sessions are then set up either with all parties present in the same room or, if that is too challenging, then with the parties can be in separate rooms in a ”shuttle mediation”.
Mediation requires parties to provide full disclosure of information and a commitment to act in good faith. It is a settlement based process that encourages open, creative, and flexible conversations leading to a comprehensive agreement that resolves all issues thereby allowing parties to move forward with their lives in a positive manner.
For more information about mediation, contact Shelina Sayani.